I can completely relate to the fact that you want to be able to get a girlfriend, yet, you also don’t want to be one of those guys that just randomly approaches just about every woman that passes him by just to play the numbers game. You don’t have to do that if you don’t want to. There are methods for getting a girlfriend that do not require you to be that guy that just relies on random luck to meet women. In fact, if you already have a woman in mind that you want to be able to date and make your girlfriend, that’s even better.
One thing that you do have to be able to do, though, is that you have to be able to take a risk. You have to be able to deal with the possibility that you may not get the girl. The reason for this is simple. You can’t always win and the guys that are afraid to lose are the ones that take no chances and play it safe. And when you play it safe when it comes to dating, that basically means that you are going to do nothing.
Here is some advice on how to get a girlfriend without having to randomly approach women and rely on dumb luck:
1) Know what kind of woman that you are really looking for.
I really can’t stand it when a guy says that he wants to have a girlfriend, and then he has no idea on what kind of woman that he wants to date. It’s kind of like he is saying that he will take just about anything. If that is the way that you are, then you might as well just approach random women. On the other hand, if you really know what kind of woman that you want to attract, you are already halfway there. The only thing that you have to do at that point is to find a way to meet a woman that meets up with what you want.
2) Try to network through your existing social connections to meet women.
This is one of the least used and yet best ways to meet a woman who really will live up to what you want in a girlfriend. Now, to make this work, you have to already have a decent social network. And I mean a face to face kind of thing, not your friends on social sites that you have never actually met in person. You have a much better chance of meeting a woman who is your “type” if you do it this way.