The world is filled with followers, but when it comes to dating and attracting women, you have to be your own guy and do your own thing if you truly want to be successful. A lot of times, guys will slip into being a follower when they want to attract a woman. They follow her around, they do whatever she wants, they try to fit the image of being the ‘perfect’ guy. And then, she ends up dating some other guy who does NONE of those things.
Want to know WHY you have to be your own guy if you want to successfully attract women?
1. You have to establish that you are an alpha male. I could go on and on about all of the reasons why an alpha male always seems to get the girl, but I don’t think that I have to. You already know this, you see this. Most guys know that they have to be seen as an alpha male to successfully attract women. But, you are NOT going to make that impression if you end up following her around and doing whatever she says and wants.
2. You MUST be able to be scarce when the time is right. A woman does not want to end up with a guy that ends up being her permanent shadow. She wants to be with a guy that has his own life and does his own thing. This is what creates that appeal with a woman that keeps her wanting you. If you don’t use this scarcity technique with a woman, then you are not going to make her want you. It really is that simple.
3. She has to wonder about you from time to time. You don’t want to be the kind of guy that is out tip toeing around with other women. But, you also don’t want to have a woman take you for granted. When you have your own life and you do your own thing, you make her wonder about you. And this can be a VERY good thing. So, to make her wonder about you, which means you will be on her mind, get out and do your own thing. It”s healthy and it builds attraction with a woman.